Knees Together:
- Perfect touching: Not required 24/7!
- Slight gap (1-2 inches): Totally fine and natural
- Key: Legs generally together-ish, not spread wide
- Think: Polite restaurant sitting, not subway manspreading
Ankle Crossing:
- Both feet on floor, ankles crossed: Perfect! Very feminine
- Super common casual feminine sitting position
- Elegant but relaxed – exactly what you want for daily life
- Easy to maintain during work/long periods
Other Normal Options:
- Knees together, feet slightly apart
- One ankle behind the other (feet on floor)
- Legs slanted to one side (both knees pointing same direction)
- Classic leg cross (knee over knee) when comfortable
The Real Rule:
“Contained and graceful” vs “taking up maximum space”
Feminine = YES:
- Legs generally close together
- Controlled, deliberate positioning
- Graceful transitions when changing position
Masculine = AVOID:
- Wide knee spread (classic manspreading)
- Ankle on opposite knee (figure-4 position)
- Legs sprawled without awareness
Daily Life Reality:
Most women adjust throughout the day! Perfect posture 100% of the time isn’t realistic or necessary.
The goal: Look naturally feminine and politely contained, not like you’re posing for a Victorian portrait!